Mama hares had no use for her husband, she could not rely on it, so all its clustered zgarniała children and never take her eyes from them, fearing that any of her children did not become wrong, or - God forbid - did not go in the footsteps of his father.
In his gromadce hares mom was a very sensitive child and very curious. She was afraid that it does not upilnuje so all the time he slipped the mind to be never apart, then they can go eat wolves, or may be lost and she will be able to find it on time and to guard against danger.
And so Zajączkowo elapsed childhood under the watchful gaze loving mother who constantly monitor his every move, where he felt so safe.
hare grew, he was sent to school to learn something, but he was so terrified that it is away from his mum that he was not able to learn, although he was intelligent and talented boy.
Since not been able to learn, my mother stopped him in the house that he had custody while she was earning a living. He was back for her, the male arm, which in the house so terribly.
Hare grew up under the watchful eye and loving mother, but when he tried to break free from her nursing wings were filled with fear him, so he quickly returned to his seat, as my mother taught him. Finally went to the clusters of different animals, which are told what they can.
Our rabbit loved adventure but was afraid any experience personally, because sprawiłby pain his mother, who always so afraid of him, at which he did not have care to of themselves. Looked so from a safe distance, listening to their stories and dreaming ... dreaming ... dreamed of. Did not notice that it is capable of a lot that can handle it, what other animals can not - he could fly through the air, which helped him to his friend the falcon. He dreamed of flying but in a way that flew his friends.
hare tried to fly as his friends, but acknowledged that it was not for him, doubted his ability, letting your voice the fear that was not his fear, but fear we are loving it, that trembled over him when he was a boy. He did not see that constantly runs away, even though there was nothing about him, which would be a stimulant to escape danger. He ran out of habit, without checking whether you really need to fear if they are only imaginary fears.
bad he the b yl, sought a rational explanation, but still returned to the same place, because he had coded in the head that has anything run fast would it be - without looking back, without checking whether the situation requires it. My mother had taught him that fear is a signal to flee head over heels and not the opportunity to see whether that is true. Did not distinguish between signals that it only had a boost to explore the world, and not the real danger. For him, everything was dangerous ...
Distance from it amounted to treason, he felt obliged to be faithful to the Mother of not seeing the reduction, addiction, enslavement. It was and is his first love for a woman. Another will not, because would betray the one you love the most. For another woman is no longer room in his heart ...
Horror parents was transmitted to children. Even when they are already adults, this mechanism will work in them - destroying creativity and curiosity about the world, because everything would be dangerous - as in childhood, the way in which parents gave them.
world is exactly what we will create it yourself. If you see a constant danger, it will be dangerous for you at every step. If you learn to use fear to explore the world - it will be as it will create it yourself, without imposed on the eyes "glasses" that you set up parents in childhood and are viewing the world, despite the fact that you have a childhood long behind him.
Remove glasses, you begin to see the world with our eyes, its sensitivity and not vaccinated in childhood, limiting and destructive self-expression, intimacy and all ties. You can change this, but you need patience.
Just as parents we patiently treasures to behaviors that they thought that they would protect us, just as you have demonstrated maximum patience to change it. You'll run but you can go back to the same place and see what caused the escape, and whether it was worth running. Ideal odróżnisz real danger of the imaginary, which has been vaccinated for the convenience of an adult ... but not for you.
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