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A. Miller - The paths of life

Publisher: Media Family

What is the impact of the first experiences of suffering and love in the subsequent human life and its coexistence with other people? This question scrolls like a clue for seven fictional story, each of which takes place in your own world. The author presents the people, many of whom suffered in childhood because of the coercion of silence and solitude. As adults these people, despite the longing for a real agreement, still ended up in a blind street inside the insulation. With the meeting of vulnerable people, to whom the data was fortunate to grow up in an atmosphere of love and respect, understand that they can change their lives.

As children we had no influence on the treatment of us by parents who often usurp the right to manipulate and control the life of the mature individuals. We could not do anything. Today we have an impact on our lives and belief, we can influence the way we treat ourselves and others. Change things can change and what change We can not - let's change their approach.

Alice Miller discusses the dynamics of a wide-hatred and emotional ground of genocide. The author believes that hatred and violence can be prevented if we stop ignoring them is rooted in early childhood. From denying her own, experienced in the past, the hatred is born of suffering inflicted on innocent people. The new law explicitly protecting the rights of the child, and prohibiting the use of violence against children, could prevent the commission of acts of violence by adults, which in turn would ensure better public protection than prison.

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Pedophile ... Action

Michael remembers how her father raped him. I want to remember. Because if you forget, it will do the same. She says of herself - I'm a pedophile

I have a monster

Yesterday on Onet found shocking article on pedophilia.

reassured me even more is that the man can just as much as they taught him at home. Pedophile, or other dewiantem man is not born . As an infant, then the child is helpless and reliant on an adult guardian. When it grows, reproduces what was taught.

aggression and violence followed in the family home moved to the outside. Somewhere you need to relieve what he suffered in childhood, although most do not remember, because the human psyche to survive in the mental health per se, suppresses the destructive situations niepamięci.To cobwebs cover is in us like a thorn stuck, which does not always allow ourselves to being careful to remove that nothing is wrong with that, we had a great childhood, or at least good. Wonder Just where do our tendency to exhibitionism, pedophilia, odreagowywanej rage coming on.

How much can hurt your own child when it is considered that it is parents' property. As a parent had to be touched by their own parents, since her pain and suffering to act out on that, which is so much of it depends on who will do anything to feel loved and accepted, which will abolish the rape and abuse by one parent. Who will assume all the bad whims of their parents, hoping that someday will be better in the end only love him because he is.

None of the parents was not trying to be sensitive to the child's feelings when it humiliates, degradation only because I stood in his way - the child is helpless and will not return to him that which he receives, he is afraid rejection, afraid of the stronger and bigger than myself. Children are usually forbidden to express violent emotions - in addition to the joy - because a parent in his own family home was not taught them.

Few people depend on the realization that makes mistakes, that what their child will be tasting each others absorbed by it as a rule, we will use in relation to their partner and children when she grows up. Because the parent is usually above the law, never wrong, is almost a god. These children are guilty of everything - they are stubborn, stubborn, inattentive, lazy. I know children who are under the influence of "dressage" and the excessive control they become languid, alienated, terribly lonely - like Michael from the article.

This is not just a problem of the lowest social strata, also applies to intelligence. Only surveillance methods are more sophisticated, wysubtelnione. Here are the most often does not apply to beatings, but the mental rape, bribery, deserving of love, humanity, undermining a child like "beast", "cow", "idiot" "moron," "fool" or more bluntly ect.

Returning from a shopping trip yesterday I witnessed all sorts, who gave the young mother. I was shocked. She walked with the child, a girl can a three-year, which kept the truck. It was obvious that a hurry. Entering the shop let go baby stroller and was slightly behind (narrow passage). My mother, her face contorted with anger tore at her: "What are you, whore, do not know how it comes! Want to keep the truck !"... Lack of control over them and saying, steered in the direction of a small child crying caused. It was evident that such behavior have belonged to everyday life. In this way, small is taught expressing love and affection. In this way - in the future - will treat their offspring.

And we, the society we accept it, because it's great. What kind of damage may cause an epithet, which we will treat the nerves spouse or child? Who would remember that strong emotions can be expressed as declaring: "I'm upset / angry / mad because ...". Nobody has taught us this, but learned that we can charge the weakest bad humor, make fun of him explaining Then it was just a joke . Then I wonder whether the escape of suicide among children - we just wanted good raise children with ... dressage, not noticing their own behavior, requiring the children's culture, freeing himself from it. One thing amazes me that only adult considered to be human. And what for us is the child?

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